Last week, a good friend and I were chatting. And he told me "You always complain about that!" Ok, so he didn't use the word "complain" but I don't want to offend you by saying the female dog.
At first I took exception to it - not the complaining but the emphasis on "always". I don't "always", or all the time. But he was right. I do complain.
Sometimes I bitch on facebook, but that's ok coz I think that's what facebook is for, or so it would seem. Haha!
Since he told me, I've been catching myself, repeatedly.
A couple of years ago, I lost a good friend because of it. My fault, not his. Unfortunately, he won't come back, even after an apology.
Sometimes I don't take things seriously enough. Other times I over-react. This time, I'm listening and re-thinking.
Thanks man.
Scott. I for one could have also written this blog and I am sure that if most of us would be honest with ourselves we all could have!! but you did and I thank you for it!! Made me think!!
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